Family Calendar Setup · USD 29
Two children, four activities, and nobody is free at 16:30 on Thursday
Your week on one page, with the three conflicts nobody had noticed and who is driving to what.
You did not have a calendar problem, you had four calendars. Putting school, clubs, work patterns and transport on one page found three collisions, two of which happen every single week and one of which is why Tobi has been late to swimming since September.
Thursday 16:30 needs one adult in two places. Tuesday pickup assumes a 17:00 finish that became 17:30 in September. Friday has nobody assigned at all, which has been resolved by text message every week since term started.
The week
Who is where, and who is driving
| Mon | Tue | Wed | Thu | Fri | |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| School drop, both | Dayo | Dayo | Nkechi | Dayo | Nkechi |
| Ada, after school | Home | Netball to 17:30 | Home | Choir to 16:30 | Home |
| Tobi, after school | Home | Home | Swimming 16:15 | Swimming 16:15 | Home |
| Pickup driver | Nkechi | Dayo, 17:00 | Nkechi | Conflict | Nobody |
| Adult working late | Nkechi | Dayo |
Thursday is the bad one. Ada finishes choir at 16:30 at school, Tobi starts swimming at 16:15 eleven minutes away, and Dayo works late. One adult, two places, every Thursday since September.
| Conflict | What happens now | Options |
|---|---|---|
| Thursday 16:15 and 16:30 | Tobi arrives 10 to 15 minutes late every week | Move Tobi to the Wednesday-only slot, or ask the Aduba family who already drive Wednesday |
| Tuesday 17:00 pickup | Netball moved to 17:30 in September. Dayo still leaves work at 16:40 | Just change the leave time |
| Friday, nobody assigned | Resolved by text every week | Assign it. Nkechi is free |
Two of the three are solved by writing something down. Only the Thursday collision needs an actual change, and the cheapest version is a lift share with a family already making that journey.
Preparation
What has to be in the bag
| Mon | Tue | Wed | Thu | Fri | |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Ada | Reading record | Netball kit | Reading record | Choir folder | Spellings due |
| Tobi | Book bag | Book bag | Swim kit, towel | Swim kit, towel | Show and tell |
| Packed by | Night before | Night before | Night before | Night before | Night before |
Two swim kits a week means two towels in the wash and the same kit needed 48 hours apart. A second set of goggles and a spare towel is about USD 22 and removes the most common Wednesday morning argument in this house.
Ahead
Dates and deadlines this term
- 30 Oct
Half term begins
One week. No cover arranged yet for the Tuesday and Wednesday when both of you work.
- 6 Nov
Ada school trip, deposit due
USD 34. Form is in the folder, not signed.
- 11 Nov
Parents evening, Ada
Booking opens 1 November and slots go in a day.
- 18 Nov
Tobi swimming assessment
Different time, 17:00 not 16:15. Diarised separately.
- 27 Nov
Netball tournament, Saturday
All day, away. Needs a driver and a packed lunch.
- 5 Dec
Christmas performance, both children
Same afternoon, different times. Check whether they clash.
- 12 Dec
Ada school trip balance
USD 46.
- 19 Dec
Term ends
Half term starts in three days and has no cover on two days. That is the only genuinely urgent item on this page and it is the one most likely to be discovered on Monday morning.
This week
Six things
- Sort half term cover for Tuesday and Wednesday
- Ask the Aduba family about a Thursday swimming lift
- Dayo to leave at 17:10 on Tuesdays, not 16:40
- Friday pickup assigned to Nkechi, permanently
- Sign and pay the trip deposit
- Buy a second set of swim kit